A younger gentleman contacted me that I’d make a good role model. I love helping, and he did find me on ENTP.org — contacted on FB. I went with it. I listened to his stories, gave feedback in full honesty about my past, my experiences, and my answers to difficult questions… even one like “Should I go to college?”
ENTP’s are often the world’s artists…. yes, Seth Gofin’s Linchpin states that art is when you put your gift into what you are doing, so accounting can be art… it’s problem solving, navigating without a map, and working on the edge of the box. But ENTP’s are the troubled ones that can do anything. We know we can do anything, and thus we bounce around between anything.
We’re pretty popular in advertising… come up with creative ideas, fight deadlines, show diversity, emphasize with a brand or logo.
I gave all my answers for everything– the lessons I’ve learned in life. These are not the, but give you a sense of some.
Move away from negativity, move towards the positive stuff….. sometimes easier said than done. This can mean reading a book that bores you, or helping someone without getting anything back. It can – and ofte does – mean having to fire your friends that are losers. Yeah… I wrote it… and for your question of “Who is he to judget?” screw what I think… what do you think? It’s proven…. you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. Income, fitness, optimisim, negativity, sarcasm, love, success– everything.
So, a loser is someone that’s holding you back. Someone who’s not taking chances, or willing to pursue their own dreams and goals. Someone who is fine with settling, and always talks shit about your dreams. Ditch ‘em, and get mentors; people that inspire you to do better. People who have already done what you want to do. Learn from other’s mistakes… it’s much cheaper, trust me.
One thing I’ve learned is that five years from now, most everything that will have changed in your life is who you spend time with, and what books you’ve read (what you’ve learned… I do a lot of audio books / videos). I was told that everything I said resounded as right…. Others weren’t able to connect on the same level. Cool, I can help.
The books I suggested were Tim Ferriss’s The 4 Hour Workweek, Dale Carnegie’s Win Friends and Influence People, and Strengths Finder 2.0.
TJ took action, and got all 3 books. I continue to help when people take action.
He said his strengths were:
I’d say it sounds like he chose a role model pretty well. I’m not talking about what my life’s been, but rather that we’re both ENTPs with 4 out of 5 overlapping strengthsfinder results.
“One day, I would love to meet you and work with you because I have noticed that you do not have Ideation listed as one of your top 5…I feel this is one of my greatest talents and I feel like out of all of them, it is what makes me stand out the most as an individual. I have endless, endless ideas. They come from everything I lay eyes on. If you used your talents and skills to help me launch them…We could make a shitload of money. A shitload. I have ideas for practically anything you can imagine….businesses included. Implementation is difficult for me though, because I have very little resources at the moment, a huge roadblock for all of my ideas is capital. This could be easily overcome if I could tap into your network….What do you think?”
Well… I value my network. It’s my most priceless posession. You! Reading! Your time and attention, and teh people I couchsurf with, do business with, go on adventure with, call friends…. It’s what I value in life. So… to just prance into my life and say that you want access to that is balsy. I encourage it. Game on. But ideation? I don’t feel attacked, but trust me in saying that just ’cause it’s not in my top 5, does not mean that I do not posess the skill.
In fact, ideation is one of my most noticeable skills. I can come with more uses and solutions for things than most anyone I’ve ever met. Let’s see what he’s got. That, and I know what motivates ENTPs We’re a competitive bunch…. and we both have the self-assurance strength, and futuristic, so of course, we’re both going to think that we’ll win anything. So, I challenged him…
This Monday at 11pm EST, on my weekly BlogTalkRadio show, Couchsurfing Radio, there will be an idea off!
40 Minutes of the show will be dedicated to this (Everyone still wants to know what’s up with Jason Moffatt’s cliffhanger about the Maori Healer (here’s a pic of the guy:
The 40 minutes will be split into 8 minute segments… 2 minutes of the person with a question explaining it, then each of us gets 3 minutes. Part of the 1st 20 minutes will be to decide which questions will be answered. We could do 5 of these, but I doubt we’ll stay to 3 minutes each When ideating, it’s easy to get lit up, and want to just keep going on ideas. If something truly rocks, then we’ll keep it going. So, we will solve 4 people’s problems.
Leave a comment with anything that you need ideas on. My strengths finder results can be found at this Blog Post on Happiness. Please share this with friends, so we can really solve people’s problems. I charge a lot of money to do this for your company… so this is your chance to get consulting for free. What’s not working? What would you like to do? What’s working and you’d like to improve? Personal? Business? Social Media? Fitness? Music? Eating? Humor? Connecting? Dude- pick a question, post it as a comment.
Which question would you like to see answered? Comment about that? We’ll decide based on comments that have been posted by Monday night. I know what I Can do, and I”m constantly told how helpful it is. Let’s see what TJ has. If he kicks ass, maybe someone will want to hire him for his creativity and ideation, which he says is a large value component of who he is.
Leave a comment, and hopefully we can give you just the idea you need.